Currently

It seems like the only action on my blog was the change of the background picture every once in a while. So, I decided to update everyone on how I am doing. I am aware that most of it is going to sound like "white people" problems, so don't judge!

Just to let you know what I have been doing recently:

I am living alone in Ljubljana, in a pretty comfortable room with its own kitchen and bathroom. It's a dreamy place to study: no noise, no distractions, and of course - crappy internet connection.

Other than my studies (or the thoughts of them, which are more time-consuming) I am busy making plans. I think, if I were to mention my favourite hobby, it would probably be making plans and designing check-lists. Nothing keeps my heart beet vast than a well developed plan of what I am going to do in the future.

My whole life now revolves around paperwork, phone calls, applications, CVs, visas, reservations, booking, thinking which way is cheaper to travel, and food.

For my dissertation, I have decided man up and to do it the hard way - travel across the ocean towards a country I do not have any idea about nor speak the language to conduct an ethnographic research on Armenians and Armenian language. My travels towards that magical land starts in 12 days. Interestingly, I am not going there straight away. Nope. I am visiting every country nearby, then going there. Oh, have I not mentioned? I am going to South America.

My trip starts on December 12th when I hop on a plain for 13 hours and end up in Sao Paulo, Brazil! After about a month I am flying to Buenos Aires, Argentina for some fieldwork and networking. Also tourism, of course. Then (maybe) going to Peru for a week, then back to Buenos Aires. In February, I am finally making it to Montevideo, Uruguay for a month and a half. On April 1st, I am going back to Amsterdam, spending a couple of days in the Hague (hopefully my friend would allow me to crash at her place), then traveling to Brussels, then to Paris, then to Lyon for System of a Down Concert, then maybe to Zurich (always wanted to visit for a day of two), then finally back to Ljubljana for a month and a half to concentrate on my studies and finish up my thesis. Theeeeen, that's where my plans end for a while. But I am thinking.

So now, because of this overly exhausting (and probably the best plans I have come up with my whole life) I am sitting around in Ljubljana and stressing out. "What if's" and "How on earth's" are not leaving my head, and I have a stay-up-all-night-thinking insomnia.

I am stress-eating and stress-shopping. Lucky for me, a two-Euro nail polish is enough for a day, so the harms to my budget are not that bad.

I miss my family.

I am going to Milan in 5 days and I have no idea how I am getting there.

I have to present my thesis proposal in front of a big audience of professors, and I am mortified.

Concentrating is the hardest thing in the world. And when I have so much to do, I find it a lot easier to just not do anything.

Well, this what my life looks like now. And even though I am stressing and not sleeping nearly enough - I think I am the happiest I can be.

Conversations. Part 2

As I have mentioned previously, one of the super cool things about living abroad and traveling is the fact that you meet so many different people along the way. You learn from them, share experiences, and if you are very lucky, you will have some stories to tell afterwards. Just to be clear, I do not want to stereotype anybody, I am simply sharing my experience.

So, this post is about the conversations with people I have met, all the weird and funny things I have heard, and all the questions that I have kept asking myself ever since.

The Kurdish Guy and Urban Decay 

It was raining in Vienna on the last day. I was in the city centre, and naturally, I tried to find a dry place to hide for a little bit. I found myself in the beautify shop (shocking!) and started looking around, you know, since I was killing time...

In the corner there was a whole shelf of makeup from Urban Decay - this over-expensive pretty good brand mostly famous for its "Nude" eyeshadows. I was looking around, trying some on my hand when a handsome guy, mid twenties, approached me:

- Are you interested in anything particular?

- Nope, juuuuuust looking. (And hiding from the rain.)

- Well, let me know if you need anything. Where are you from by the way?

- Oh, I am from Armenia. A small country. Nobody really knows much about it.

- Are you KIDDING me? I am Kurdish. My family lived on almost the border with Armenia.

- Oh. Really?

- YEAH! I know all about you guys. The history, the Genocide... Come on!! 

Yeah, the Genocide topic popped up in the conversation initially about makeup. He continued.

- You know, I can say "Ես քեզ սիրում եմ" (translation from Armenian: I love you) and... "հավատում եմ" (translation: I believe). Oh my god, do you know Sirusho? (name of an Armenian singer)

I smiled and nodded yes.

- I am obsessed with Siruho! - he continued, -She is just so pretty! You know her song... what's it called? What's it called?...

- Em... I don't know... Քելե-քելե?

- Yes, that one. I love all of her songs. I don't understand anything, but who cares?

I noticed that the shop was nearly empty, and decided to talk a bit more with the guy. I introduced myself and said that I was glad meeting him.

- Oh, of course, honey. - he replied, - We should look after each other. Come on, we are basically brother nations, we have the same enemy. You know what's going in Turkey now, right? 

- Yes, I do. And I am sorry. 

Then I decided to tell him about a nice little chat I had with a Turkish guy in Budapest, where I was earlier that week. I went to a Turkish cafe and had a Shawarma with my new acquaintance from Taiwan - Marcus. Cool guy. When we entered, Marcus told me that he really wanted to visit Turkey. I told him that Istanbul is a beautiful city and he should definitely do that. Also, I told him that he could also visit Armenia, but if he wanted to take the bus, he should know he had to go through Georgia. Of course, he asked why. I had to tell him the whole story. When we went to order some food, the guy making shawarma asked me if I was Turkish as well (I get that a lot!), and I said I was from Armenia. The guy (who later told me he was studying political science and wanted to be a diplomat one day) followed us to our table, asking me a bunch of questions about politics. I wanted to share my experience with the Kurdish guy.

So I started:

- ... So, this Turkish guy turns to me and says "What do you Armenians want from us?! I want to understand and see what we (the Turkish government) can do about it." And I told him he should google the list. Then he turned to me and said "Well, if you want your territory back and we give it to you, then everybody will want their territory back as well. I want to help you, but if we give you land, then Greek people want land, Assyrian want land, Kurdish people want land...What do we have left then, I don't understand..." and I replied to him that maybe they shouldn't have conquered the lands in the first place. Right?

- Ah, don't even get me started!

And we ended up talking for another half hour about Turkey, Armenia and Kurdish people. Then we switched to make-up, travels and weather. Then the rain stopped, and I had to leave. 

Conversations. Part 1

One of the super cool things about living abroad and traveling is the fact that you meet so many different people along the way. You learn from them, share experiences, and if you are very lucky, you will have some stories to tell afterwards. Just to be clear, I do not want to stereotype anybody, I'm simply sharing my experience.

So, this post is about the conversations with people I have met, all the weird and funny things I have heard, and all the questions that I have kept asking myself ever since.

The Chechen driver and his brother's respect

I was on my way from Vienna to Ljubljana in a car full of strangers. I found them on the website of Bla-Bla Car - one of the fun and cheap ways to get around in Europe. One of the benefits - you get hours of conversations with a driver and most likely two other people in the car.

Sometimes the drivers are talkative, sometimes - not so much. This guy was originally from Chechnya - a republic in North Caucasus and a federal subject of Russia. Beautiful place. Don't believe me? Check out the picture.

Modern day Grozny, ladies and gentlemen!

There were 5 of us in the car, with the driver and his brother comfortably sitting in the front and talking on their native language, and three passengers (two Austrians and myself). Since I don't speak German that well, and they did not speak English - our communication did not lead anywhere in the beginning, other then him asking if I have any luggage to put in the trunk. I nodded yes. Then, of course, he asked me what other languages I spoke, and I mentioned Russian. That's where the fun started.

First, of course, he told me about the migration history of his family, which was fascinating. Then he went towards "Երկիրը երկիր չի" (inner joke for my Armenian friends. Sorry!) and ended somewhere "Եվրոպան էլ մի ապրելու տեղ չի, անջիգյար ժողովուրդ են". Made me smile. He reminded me of home. The driver and I talked for a while. Then, all of a sudden we heard an Armenian song from his CD. I didn't know the song, never heard if before. And I was kind of a song that usually makes your ears bleed. You know, the "մուղամ" song that everyone hates. You know what? At that time and place - I loved it. Almost sounded like music to my ears.

When we stopped to breathe some fresh air and use the bathroom. While everyone was minding their business, the brother of the driver said hi. I said hi back. He said "I noticed you were talking to my brother the whole way. When you were talking about Armenia, I wanted to say that there was an Armenian boy in my class. We made a lot of pranks together..." I smiled and asked why he didn't say that earlier. And he replied: "Well, you were talking to my older brother. I could't have intervened. It's a RESPECT thing."

Ljubljana: new life, new habits

"Where are you, Laura? Where have you been? Where are you moving next?" I get asked that a lot (not to brag). Well, as of today (and the next 2 months) I am in Ljubljana, Slovenia.

View from my window in Ljubljana.

I moved here for two months, to do a module on Identity and Language in the framework of Migration and small nations (I am a student, for crying out loud).

As always, starting a new life (especially a short one) means one thing: series of new habits and promises to myself that I would try to keep but would eventually fail. Doesn't matter, I still love this part.

So, for the next two months, here is the list of my new habits.

1) Eating healthy.

Haha. I got you, right? 

No, but seriously, this is what I would keep myself busy with. I started with something known as "Cabbage Soup Cleans" which was recommended to me by some friends who assured me: "It works!" 

It's a pretty tough diet that goes on for 7 days. For those interested, here is the link: http://www.cabbage-soup-diet.com/

2) Getting comfortable with myself and my thoughts.

Not what you think, perverts. I decided to start a life where I am not afraid of loneliness. In the beginning of my first year as an MA student I wasn't coping well with loneliness. I was depressed for two weeks, and it took me a whole year to be self-dependent. I think I am on the right track, but I still need some more practice. For instance: traveling by myself, or spending hours reading instead of hanging out with friends and all...

3) Learning how to cook

Probably the worst place to start with that, as students get 50% off for the food in restaurants, which makes it more affordable than cooking for yourself. Still, for the next two months I am learning how to cook.

4) Staying in touch with people I love

Not only through Facebook and Whatsapp, but through postcards and old-fashioned mails. First thing to do - get everyone's addresses.

5) Stop being a shopaholic.

Spending tons of money on things I don't need - that is so me. Well, not anymore. As of October 15th - I am not spending any more money on things I can live happily without. Except for, maybe, when there is 50% sale... or better yet - 70%.

6) Getting real.

One of the advices of my dad, and a new habit: becoming more responsible. Plan and stick to it - that's my new motto. I have decided that starting from today no more missing deadlines and leaving everything last minute. This is the day I grow up, and that is what grow-ups do (I think)!

7) Going back to studying Spanish.

I spent my whole life thinking that I would never go to South America. Well, as of right now it is not so impossible as I thought. So, watching movies in Spanish, reading and maybe finding new friends to practice Spanish would be my thing. Now, where in Slovenia can I find Spanish-speaking people?

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Well, this is it for now. If I keep at least 3-4 of these new habits/promises to myself, then I will reward myself with a new laptop. My old one is falling apart already.

Safari

When in Uganda, I had to do a Safari tour. There are two major destinations for Safari in Uganda: Murchison falls and Queen Elisabeth. I chose the first one and was very excited.

I chose one of the more affordable packages: three days in Murchison falls, on the Nile and a Rhino Sanctuary. All inclusive, except for food. Also, one of the most exciting things: I was gonna sleep in a tent.

Now, one of the most fun things was letting my parents know about my plans.

They were really happy about the Safari, but not crazy about me sleeping in a tent. Here are some comments I heard:

#1
Mom: "I raised you... I spent sleepless nights for you... and this is how you are thanking me? Spending a night in a tent so some lion would eat you? You, ungrateful child!"
Me: "Mom, it's not one night. It's two nights"
Mom: "Ah, what difference does it make. You're gonna be eaten at some point!"

#2
Me: "Mom, it is really ok. There are a lot of people. No animal is going to eat me. I promise, there is nothing to worry about"
Mom: "How did I raise you so abnormal? Did you get it from my breast-milk? Ah, they told me not to breast-feed you longer than 6 months. This is what happens when you do!! "

#3 (I was already on the way to Murchison. On the phone)
Me: "Hey daddy! Happy Birthday!!"
Dad: "Hey sweetie! Good that you remember my birthday. You know what the best gift for me would be? Would you give me the gift of surviving those 3 days and not being eaten by lions or whatever creature you will see?"
Me: "Yes, daddy. I promise!"

Safari was awesome. I didn't see lions or leopards, but I saw a whole bunch of other wonderful things.

Turns out, even if I don't get eaten by lions, my tent might be attacked by a warthogs. That's why we were all told to take out everything that we have that smells (good or bad, doesn't matter).

Here are the falls: Murchison and Uhuru (Independence).

And the rest of the wonders of Murchison Falls National Park

Rhinos are the scariest animals I have seen. They are freaking huge!! Plus, I heard this from our ranger 

Ranger: "If it attacks you, you have to hide behind the tree" 

Me: "What if I don't make it? Would you shoot the rhino?"

Ranger: "Oh, no. The life of a rhino is costs way more than human's. They are dying species, you know..."

Well, maybe not exactly his words, but all the ranger meant was that he was in no way going to harm the rhino.

Btw, funny story. There is a family of rhinos in this sanctuary, where the Mom is from the US and the Dad is from Kanya. Guess the name of their child! Obama! Haha.

Even though I booked my tour by myself, I met a bunch of nice people and shared a drink or two (or three... or four, who keeps count)

BEST TRIP EVER!

Uganda's nature

I am sure I have mentioned this before, but the nature in Uganda is stunning.

Although the rainy season has begun, and the rays of sun don't burn your head as often, Kampala stays its gorgeous self.

The rain here is nothing I have seen before. Here, it rains as if there's no tomorrow. But unlike Germany, or Norway, it stops after a short while. 20 minutes, 30 minutes. Not more than that.

DID YOU SEE THAT HORNY COW?!

One of the things that amuse me the best in Uganda is the nature. Not a day has passed without me smiling at a chicken, a goat, at those weird-looking-man-eating marabous, and other beautiful birds of different colour and most importantly - the cows.

A horny cow would usually mean something else in a different context, but in this one - it literally  means a really horny cow.

The cows here are amazing! They have huge horns, which make you worry about your ass when you approach them. I was told by the locals, that the cows are not aggressive and won’t attack, but honestly - they are badshit scary!

Here are some pictures! You judge.

I was attending a very serious and important training in Mbarara. Halfway through the training I noticed the cows from the window!! Leaving the important event behind, I raced to the field, where the cows were enjoying the fresh grass. I didn’t care for the rain, nor the slippery soil. All I cared about - were the cows! Ah… the cows!! 

My colleague joined me in a while. He started telling me different fascinating facts about cows. Apparently I am the last person to find out that when the season comes for cows to get pregnant, they get on top of other female cows to “send a message” to the bulls that they are ready for… you know…

With this in mind, I remembered several occasions, where females of another species - humans, would get all over one another to impress the males. Come on, we have all seen that in bars. Girls making out with each other to impress a guy….

Well, next time I encounter that, I will enlighten the females that they did not invent the girl on girl action. The Ugandan cows did! :D 

Things that I've been told

People in Uganda are extremely nice. Culturally, they are very hospitable, caring and curious about the newcomers. I like that. However, differences of the expressions that are not appropriate in my society may actually be considered a complement here. Here are some things that were told to me personally. I didn’t take any offence, but thought it might be interesting to share.

Case 1. Hairiness

- What is that? Do you have a beard? Let me take one of the hair out! Hahahahaha, I am joking! 

Alright, my nation is genetically hairy. Sue me! 

Case 2. Weight 

Stranger: You are fat! Eat more so you can become bigger! Eat!

Me: Excuse me?

Stranger: You are fat! 

Me: Excuse me?

Stranger: Fat!! Big! Fat!

(this was happening when I was sitting outside, with a big bowl of rice and g-nuts)

Case 3. Muzungu vs. Chinese lookin’

- Hey, China!! China!! You are China!!

I don’t understand what that supposed to mean. I am… China! I should have one of those labels “Made in China!"

I understand that most of the times people were either thinking that I would appreciate the joke. I never did, but I had to be understanding of the culture of complements here. I wasn’t! I tried very hard for those words not to offend me, but they did!

These “complements" would haunt me forever!

Summer 2014

Summer of 2014 was the craziest, most adventurous and most amazing I had. As I am sure you noticed from my Facebook wall - I spent two entire months traveling. Instead of going home to see my parents, like good girls would do, I shut down my computer for good 60 days and wondered around!

I have never been the girl with brilliant logic. Instead of traveling to countries that are close to each other, I made an impossibly complicated rout around Europe.

Stavanger (NO) ---> Oslo (NO) ---> Rome (IT) ---> Florence (IT) ---> Venice (IT) ---> Den Haag (NL) ---> Amsterdam (NL) ---> Hamburg (GE) ---> Barcelona (SP) ---> Porto (PT) ---> Lisbon (PT) ---> Madrid (SP) ---> Athens (GR) ---> Fira, Santorini (GR) ---> Heraklion, Crete (GR) ---> Kampala (UG)

You see, not much of logic regarding my destinations.

I call my journey "4-day-traveling" as that is approximately how much I spent in each of the cities. Actually, sometimes it was way more, but it always felt I like I was staying in one place for 4 days, which is enough to get familiar, but not enough to get attached.

To be honest, I can never say which of the places I like the most. I gave it a thought -- and I have no way of picking my favourite. All of the places were magical in their own way. However, if I were to give titles to those places - here is how I would do it.

Best food - Portugal
Best view - Santorini
Most welcoming - Madrid
Most fun - Barcelona
Most expensive - Oslo
Most romantic - Florence (duh!)
Most calm and relaxing - Porto
Most unbelievable - Amsterdam
Most historically interesting - Athens
Place I would return to - Santorini
The most outstanding - Kampala

Traveling is amazing, but sometimes you find yourself wondering - where am I? Usually that was the question I asked myself within 5 seconds of waking up "Ok, where am I now?"

Although, once, when my plane landed, I couldn't understand where I was. I took a short nap in the plane, and I was a bit jet-lag from the flight. I tried to figure out by the language spoken in the airport. It sounded like Norwegian. Wait a second. Did I go back to Norway? Or am I dreaming?

I was really confused. It took me 10 minutes after washing my face and getting double espresso to realise that I was in Copenhagen. Ok. Capital city of which city is Copenhagen again?

Oh! Copenhagen! Danmark!

Wait a minute. What am I doing in Danmark?

It took me some time to really put myself together, and when I finally woke up - I remembered I was going to Hamburg to visit a friend.

This summer was really unforgettable. I managed to visit friends I hadn't communicated for a long time, travel with my brother, make new friends, learn and most importantly - enjoy life. I know it sounds very cliché, but I have no other way of putting this.

I realised a lot of things, one of which is the following: the more you explore, the more you understand that you have seen nothing so far! So, this summer I learned to love traveling. It made me obsessed about visiting new places. Now I am  impatiently waiting for my travels in South America. 

World Youth Day

The first day when you realise you're the part of the team is when you take a picture with the logo of your organisation. At least, that is what I felt very often.

Today is International Youth Day, and together with my Colleagues from Refugee Law Project, other NGO's and, of course, refugees and asylum seekers, we celebrated it by marching down the beautiful streets of Kampala.

Afterwards, we attended a football match between Refugee and Ugandan youth. I don't know who won, but the point is not winning - right?

Becoming religious in Kampala

As many of you know, I used to be hard-core agnostic. Ever since I was a little girl, I was raised non-religious. Although years of being bullied at school for one single sentence "There is no God" in church class, at the age of 23 I managed to stay exactly where I was. Religiousless.

My life has changed now. Even though the concept of God is still beyond my imagination and understanding, I developed a very unusual habit: I started to pray.

Every morning, the entire time between 8:30 and 8:55 I pray to God to survive the chaotic traffic of Kampala. I repeat the action from 17:30 to 17:45, as I rush home from work.

So far, my prayers are working.

My everyday accessory: a slightly-smelly but very useful safety helmet

Even though I don't pray out loud, I have come up with a song that I sing every day on the way. Along with my driver, we proudly sing the following lines, as loud as it can get:

Verse:
Laura: I'm gonna dieeee!
David the driver: You're not gonna dieeee!! (in tone lower, with his deep voice)
Laura: I'm sooo going to dieeeee!!
David: You won't dieeeee!!

And for the Chorus, the lyrics continues:

Laura: Maaaaaam!! I don't want to die!! I am still single and I have no kids. I can't dieeeeee!!
David: You will not dieeeee!!
Laura: DIEEEEE!!

To be honest, our little song attracts a lot of attention from the passers-by, other boda-boda and car drivers, etc. But I think at some point we are making them smile. Not every day you see a singing white girl on a boda, with a mortified face, with her arms around the driver, squeezing his guts and probably causing internal bleeding.

Every day, I pray before going to sleep that tomorrow would be less stressful on the road, but so far it's been the same chaos. I am patient this time.

Wish me luck, and, please, pray for me too!! 

Conversations that are just too funny

Ever since I arrived to Kampala, I have been engaged in conversations with different people about Armenia.

Most of the people that I have met have never heard about Armenia. Best case scenario - they know Kim Kardashian... I always get asked where Armenia is geographically located, if we are muslim or not, or how is it possible to have a population of less than 3 million. I enjoy those conversations, as they make me feel closer to home, despite the fact that I am on a different continent.

Once, I was talking to my Ugandan family about Armenians and the hair. I told them that we are probably the hairiest nation on the planet, and that our men have hair everywhere: on their neck, shoulders, arms, ears, etc (sorry for being gross). My Ugandan brother (who is 14 years old and naturally curious) looked at my arm, touched it with this index finger and said:

- You said Armenians are hairy. But you're not hairy.

I blushed for a bit. Then I quickly overcame my embarrassment and replied.

- Well, now I'm not. But they will grow in a while.

Looking puzzled, he thought for a moment and asked, sincerely.

- Is it like... seasonal?

I think I laughed for 15 minutes. I said:

- Em... no.

- Then what is it? - he looked as if he could't come up with any other rational explanation.

I think this was one of the funniest expressions I had heard in my life. I needed to share with everyone.

In Kampala

Hello, hello everyone!!

First of all, I want to apologize for not writing anything for the past months. I was busy enjoying life and I couldn’t quite finish any of the posts I wanted to write. 

I am back now, with tons of things to share!!

To start off, the charger of my computer broke and I didn’t have much access to my blog for the past days. However, a new charger should arrive soon, and there will be pictures and videos to share.

You probably all know that I am in Uganda. Many of you sent me messages with all kinds of concerns about my health, psychosocial well-being, or if I am getting enough nutrition, so I felt the need to write this post for everyone concerned about me.

I AM FINE!

I am healthy, I eat well, and there are no threats to my well-being. Thank you for your worries, but I am really doing great.

About my life right now: I live in a nice house with a local family who treats me like I am their family member. I haven’t met such genuinely nice people, who would be so helpful and welcoming. And I am saying this knowing that I am coming from a very welcoming culture myself. My family here is the reason I feel safe every day. Not safe in a sense that I would otherwise be in danger, but in a sense that in case I find a dead (or in worse case – alive) cockroach in my bathroom, or if there is a gecko in my bed – I know my Ugandan brother would take care of it (and then make fun of me for the rest of the week for being terrified by a cockroach that is “only the size of my middle finger”.

About that “muzungu” thing: For everyone who doesn’t know, muzungu in local language means “a white person” I now feel what it’s it like to look different than the majority, and I think I even understand how it feels to be black in Armenia. Although it is not a derogatory word, it’s still uncomfortable sometimes, but you get used to it. And when 5-6 year old kids wave to you on the street and then get shy when you wave them back – that’s priceless. There is one kid who lives in the neighboring house to mine, who runs and hugs me every day I come back from work. My heart melts a little every time…

About food: it is delicious. I gave up eating the “muzungu” food, and I am only eating local food. All day, every day. One of my favorite is g-nuts with matoke (mashed bananas) or rice, or the local fish sauce. I don’t think I ever ate healthier than here (yay me!).

About my friends: Other than the wonderful family I live with, I have some of my classmates that are also in Uganda. Although most of them are in Nakivale, and so far only one of them in Kampala – it doesn’t mean I am feeling lonely. I have never been better.

The nightlife in Uganda is awesome. I was ignorant enough to think that I wouldn’t have the opportunity to go out in Kampala. It has the nightlife I have never seen before. Well, maybe in Miami, or something… After all, there is no better way to spend your Friday night than going out.

The weather: it’s not as hot as I thought it was. Now it rains sometimes, but the rainy season is yet to come. Not necessarily my favorite, but after Germany and Norway I can survive any amount of rain.

The traffic: My biggest concern so far. It’s crazy! And not crazy in a good way, but in the most scary way possible. Too many cars  during rush hours. But the scariest thing so far is a phenomenon called the boda-boda: the motorcycles. They are the one of the most common used means of transportation. I have to take it every day to go to work and back. So, when people ask me how far I live from work, I reply “20 terrifying minutes away on a boda”. I remember the first time I had to take a boda, I wrapped my arms around the driver,  and screamed for 15 minutes till we reached the city center. Then I was worried if he had internal bleeding because of how tightly I squeezed him. I was terrified. But then I thought I would get used to it… I didn’t. I still mortified every time I need to get from one place to another. I am afraid I will never get used to it.

About the Armenian community: There are Armenians in Uganda (well, I was not surprised. We are everywhere). I visited a nice family to welcomed me with wide arms and fed my Ethiopian food. Yumms! Some others I will meet soon.

So far, the only thing I really miss is cheese.

 …And my family, of course.

To finish, I would just say – coming to Uganda was the best place to do my internship. I am learning new things every day, and this experience is priceless. Wonderful people surround me. The nature is absolutely amazing. I am happy.

If you have any questions, I will be happy to answer them, so go ahead and ask.

Yours faithfully,

Laura

Last notes on Norway

I took an overnight train from Stavanger to Oslo. My stay in Norway is over.

It’s been 5 months. And even through I sometimes I complained about the weather, or the fact that a kilo of cherries costs 18 Euros in average supermarkets (imagine!!), it has been a great semester.

May was the most beautiful month in Stavanger. The city transformed into a fairy-tale. It’s all green, with countless flowers, breathtaking lakes and houses every single one of which makes you want to live in it.

I am often asked “What do you think about Norwegians?”. Haha. They know that the foreigners perceive them as rather cold people who prefer to keep distance from others. You know what I think? I think they are great. I haven’t really established close ties with Norwegian students - having only met them at the student bar, usually after 5-6 beers have  successfully arrived to their stomachs. And that’s when they are all chatty and loud. 

It’s another question if you go to a bar or a club. There is one in the city centre (called Cementen)  that we always used to go to. The doorman never used to let us in at first, so we had to fight our way in. So, what happened is that we were always with a pretty large group of international students. And every time the doorman chose not to let one of us in because of not having, what he thought, a legitimate ID. Our student ID had our date of birth on it - but no, wasn’t enough. So we had to show valid IDs. Turns out, permanent residency from Germany wasn’t one. Neither was permanent residency provided by Norway. Every time we had to go through the same angry conversation over and over again. At some point - we realised that it wasn’t about the ID’s. The doorman just didn’t like us very much.

One of the things that I have learned here is that not only I am not a grown-up (which I actually thought I was, haha), I am not even on the way. I am stuck in the childish period naively blinking my eyes to life. At least now I know how a grown-up looks like.

Alcohol in Norway is extremely overpriced: to drink a bottle of beer in a bar is 10 Euros. I can’t explain my paradoxical behaviour - I really don’t know how it happened that I was drinking more in Stavanger than in Germany, where beer is 1,5 Euro.

What I have learned is that champaign (with all it’s bubbles and stuff) makes me waaaay more drunk than vodka. It gives me a smile as well, while vodka makes me woohoo.

You would ask if the reason I was drinking is stress. Nope, it’s not. It’s just really boring here on the weekends.

While this train is taking me to Oslo, I am taking one final moment to think about how much I will miss Stavanger. I know that sometimes I complained about that city, or said that I didn't like it, but maybe I was being a little too harsh on the city that so kindly hosted me for unbelievably nice 5 months of my life... 

Norway

Did you ever catch yourself thinking about something that didn't really make sense at the time and then discovered that years later it is actually happening? Well, I have. When I was 17 and reading a book called "Hunger" written by Knut Hamsun, from Norway, and I wondered how would that book sound in the original language.

That's why, as years passed by and I have been admitted to University of Stavanger for an entire semester, I have signed up for a language course just for the sake of reading the original version of "Hunger" (also known as "Sult").

I realised that it has been more than three months since I have arrived to Norway and started a semester so far, and that I never wrote anything about Norway. How selfish of me to keep all that to myself, huh?

To start off, my first 4 days in Norway were catastrophic. I, along with the rest of the emmirians, was promised good and cheep accommodation in Stavanger. However, upon arrival I discovered that 5 of us were placed in Sola, a nearby town. It was horrible. Not only we were supposed to pay almost 600 Euros per month, there was very poor public transportation: two busstops (20 and 30 minutes walking). The buses ran every 30 minutes during the day, God knows if they ran in the evenings, and to go to school -- we had to either walk 30 minutes to get to the busstop, or 20 minutes and chance 2 busses. No shops or supermarkets nearby. NOTHING!! We were trapped in a deserted place which yes, had a nice view to the lake, but it's Norway, there are lakes EVERYWHERE!!

So, I spent 4 days crying and cursing my life for having to end up there. So, I did not sign the contrract and had to find a new place to live. My decision was final. My friends moved out as well.

After quite a traumatic experience I moved out. And so has begun my semester in Norway.

One of the things you should know about Norway is that it is BEAUTIFUL. I have never seen such landscape, fjords, lakes. I admire how the Norwegians live so close to the nature and preserve it. They don't cut trees to open restaurants. They don't destroy architectural landmarks to build unnecessary buildings they won't be able to sell. No. They preserve it all.

Stavanger is rainy. Very rainy. As a matter of fact -- when the sun comes out, the city looks different. It looks magical.

 

Living in Norway definitely has its advantages and disadvantages. I will probably write about it some other time, when I don't have two gigantic essays and hundreds of pages of academic readings.

How my parents made me go to Uganda

Some of you wonder how I broke the news about my decision to go to Uganda to my parents.

In rather homogenous countries, people are less used to the dialogue of intercultural communication, and most information that they obtain of other cultures and nationalities is through media. Hence, their ideas are highly dependent on what the media is showing them, which, we all know, is not always objective. So, breaking the news to my parents was a bit challenging.

I knew that they wouldn't be in the state of utmost happiness about my decision, so I only told them about it when I was 150% sure that Uganda is where I want to do my internship.

I told all my family members about my decision separately. First, I told my mom. Then my brother, and only then - my dad.

Before I write about their reaction to my decision, I would like to tell you that my family is sacred to me, so I didn't want to do anything they would be completely against. I wouldn't risk ruining my relationship with them for an internship. They were always very supportive of what I did, and were there for me when I needed support, advice or anything else, for that matter.

But I really wanted the internship! So... I had no choice but to persuade them that it was a good idea!

Even though I broke the news to everyone separately, they all seemed to have gone through the same stages:

1) Denial

No, you are NOT going. No way! OVER MY DEAD BODY!!

2) Bargain 

But you can go to any country in Europe... You can go to Spain!! You can go to Italy! What about Germany? Or France? ... No, not France, you won't understand French. But you can go to New York... Costa Rica! Please go to Costa Rica...

3) Guilt-tripping

We told you what we think about your "plan". It's dangerous there, and you will probably be eaten by a tiger... But if you want to get malaria and die there - sure. That's your decision!! We raised you... We didn't sleep at night for you... and this is how you are thanking us? By endangering the life of our daughter?

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After about a week of talking, weighting all the pros and cons, begging and crying, we have finally managed to come to an agreement that we shouldn't talk about it anymore...

But soon, they just said "Ok, we are not telling you to go to Uganda. We are just telling you that it is your decision, and we are aware that we can't do anything to stop you. So, do what you think is right."

I said "ok" and decided to look carefully to Ugandan projects, so I would start applying. While doing that, I also read about the partners of EMMIR in Sudan. That also sounded very interesting, and I hinted to my parents that I might also apply there (you know, since they were so cool about Uganda).

I loved their reaction!

"NO, GO TO UGANDA! PLEASE GO TO UGANDA!!!!"

And that's how my parents persuaded me that Uganda was the right choice!! :D

p.s. Mom and Dad, I love you!

Oooh, that Internship Question

Do you remember my post where I was asking advice which organisation to do an internship with? And I had options in London, Lebanon, etc? Well, here is time to talk about it a little more.

After months of thinking which organisation would be most suitable for me to have an internship with, tons of applications and no answers (or unsatisfying answers: "Thank you for your interest. We will take let you know if anything comes up) -- I gave up. It is exhausting for an individual to apply to so many places, because most of the organisations prefer networking with other ones, not individuals.

So, I decided to apply to one of the EMMIR partners. Which one?

Drumroll, please...

UGANDA!

Yes, Uganda.

I applied to Refugee Law Project, where among my duties would be teaching English Language to the refugees.

Now, the weird thing is that Refugee Law Project (RPLP) is one of the organisations I learned about during my first week working in UNHCR. I was given time to read all the conventions and do a little research on what organisations are there in the field of forced migration. I remember googling it and spending an hour in RLP web-page thinking - "Ah, I wish to work there one day" and realising that there is no way I would do that.

And once again, the expression of "Be careful for what you wish for, cause you just might get it!" comes to mind.

My application was successful, and with 3 other friends I am going to spend 2-2,5-months (August - October) in Uganda.


I anticipate the following reactions, so... here are some answers to that:

1) Why?

Why not?

2) Do your parents know you are crazy?

Yes!

3) It's dangerous! You can get HIV, Malaria, blah, blah, blah... 

You can get HIV in other countries the same way as in Uganda. And Malaria: there are pills for that!

4) You can get mugged, raped, killed, eaten by animals or ... or other people may eat you!! 

No! :/


On the other hand, I am not fond of people thinking that I am making sacrifices by going to Uganda.

-You can go to any European countries. Why go to Uganda?

First of all - it is GREAT work experience. As a job, working in the refugee camp is interesting, rewarding and most importantly - educational. Everything I was reading about and researching would make a lot more sense when I work in the field.

Secondly, it's a whole new world!

Now I know that there are going to be challenges during those three months, and maybe more challenges than I imagine now. But I am also sure that I will have as awesome time as anywhere else. I see it as an opportunity to grow, learn and experience. I am not sacrificing anything to go there. And no, any other internship in Europe won't be better for me!